Oh, I do know girls
So the other day my good friend Isaac informs me that yet another person has stumbled across this goldmine of insight that is this blog and of course I was thrilled. Then I was given the one sole comment that this person gave Isaac, "Alrik doesn't know a thing about girls." Now, this blog has a lot to offer, and for that to be the one thing that sticks out, well I don't know what that means but I think its a compliment to my writing style. Secondly this person really needs to back up their claims. I am not just going to take that comment and shrug it off, or perhaps say "oh yes, I know not a thing about the opposite sex." because after all, who made this comment....a girl and of course she will try to defend her sex against my opinion, even though I don't think I am that offensive.
I don't know everything about girls but I do know that girls will hardly ever tell you whats on their mind, and I have rarely seen them do so, if ever. They have to build up to that sort of thing, over a couple weeks or so, maybe a few days if your lucky. Not to say guys are perfect but they will come out with their thoughts much better then girls. Girls thrive on lying in order to protect a guys feelings, I mean God damn it this is so common it kills me. For example when a girl doesn't like her boyfriend and she wants to end it, she gives the whole "its not you its me speech" which comes in many many many forms. I even got that before I even went on a date with a girl the other day, and I have been subject to this shabby treatment nearly ever time I have been involved with a girl, at one point or the other. But you know of course when you hear those types of speeches, its not true at all, its in fact always complete bullshit. I try to convince my self they are telling the truth, but in the end I am just kidding my self. Now I thought this was just me, that girls would only do this to me or guys they similarly dislike, but oh no, this happened to one of my friends just this weekend and it was after a 6 month relationship. 6 months! Are you kidding me, you have to bullshit a person like that after 6months of a serious relationship? I personally did the exact opposite in my last venture involving a girl that I was quite fond of. I decided to be 100% honest with her, I told her what was on my mind, I answered all her questions without omission and I directly told her how I felt about her, constantly. It took her 2 weeks to figuere out that I liked her more then a friend and then it took another week for her to tell me she wasn't interested, after I told her I did so bluntly. And then she gave me the whole "its not you its me" thing on top of all that.
So yes, I think I know a whole shitload about girls, I know their good parts too, but I have class so I am going to have to leave that for another time. And of course, if you wanted a deeper explanation of how girls need to get their shit together, just tune in to this page cuz I'll be back with more of that as well, unless they can prove me otherwise. Doubtful....
I don't know everything about girls but I do know that girls will hardly ever tell you whats on their mind, and I have rarely seen them do so, if ever. They have to build up to that sort of thing, over a couple weeks or so, maybe a few days if your lucky. Not to say guys are perfect but they will come out with their thoughts much better then girls. Girls thrive on lying in order to protect a guys feelings, I mean God damn it this is so common it kills me. For example when a girl doesn't like her boyfriend and she wants to end it, she gives the whole "its not you its me speech" which comes in many many many forms. I even got that before I even went on a date with a girl the other day, and I have been subject to this shabby treatment nearly ever time I have been involved with a girl, at one point or the other. But you know of course when you hear those types of speeches, its not true at all, its in fact always complete bullshit. I try to convince my self they are telling the truth, but in the end I am just kidding my self. Now I thought this was just me, that girls would only do this to me or guys they similarly dislike, but oh no, this happened to one of my friends just this weekend and it was after a 6 month relationship. 6 months! Are you kidding me, you have to bullshit a person like that after 6months of a serious relationship? I personally did the exact opposite in my last venture involving a girl that I was quite fond of. I decided to be 100% honest with her, I told her what was on my mind, I answered all her questions without omission and I directly told her how I felt about her, constantly. It took her 2 weeks to figuere out that I liked her more then a friend and then it took another week for her to tell me she wasn't interested, after I told her I did so bluntly. And then she gave me the whole "its not you its me" thing on top of all that.
So yes, I think I know a whole shitload about girls, I know their good parts too, but I have class so I am going to have to leave that for another time. And of course, if you wanted a deeper explanation of how girls need to get their shit together, just tune in to this page cuz I'll be back with more of that as well, unless they can prove me otherwise. Doubtful....
posted by Alrik B. at 8:42 AM
4 Comments:
So I agree that girls do not tell you what they are thinking. I thought they were supposed to be the more emotionally open sex, but I have come to believe the my thoughts were incorrect. Maybe they are more emotional but open? I do not think so. As to all that other giberish I'm sure it was great because Alrik wrote it.
look Alrik first of all i didn't say u don't know a thing about girls, i said: u don't know as much as u think u know about girls. and lets be straight here girls is a pretty big generalization so while u may have lots of knowledge in the Alrik & girls relationship department that doesn't mean u know ALL ABOUT GIRLS it may mean u know girls have been bitches to u and u have reasons to prove this and so you make conclusions as to why they are bitches or whatever but correlation doesn't necessarily equal causation. what iam saying is u don't know as much as u think u do. not that u know nada but again lets be straight- youve been somewhat, yes, in my opinion, cocky about your expertise and professional knowledge in the GIRL AREA. so either get more specefic or I will go on to prove u wrong. Nor am i saying females are better than males. Just the facts. Females and males are different. To certain extents. There are exceptions lots of course especially as today the sexuall boundries are being more blurred. But as women and men r different they will in general face relationships in different ways, with friends, family spouses. The way a woman acts with her female friends will be different from how she acts with her male friends and this will be different from how she acts with her lover, fuck buddy etc. To extents of course. And this all changes with time too as the way individuals act changes as they mature. However as a human being on this planet and an american and a female and Elise, myself, these catagories are all associated in general with different types of actions, likes, dislikes, thoughts etc. Being a woman means the way u, as i said before in general, approach relationships differs from men so U being a MAN could not really realize where women's motives and actions r steming from so how r u 2 judge? Being a woman means the way u enjoy life, your body, sexual pleasure, even food, can and does in general differ...so how r u 2 know & judge. Well, not sure if i made my pts. clear enough if so i hape u r man enough to call me up to talk hmmm. tomorrrow is international womens day. enjoy and meditate on what being a woman means but as u r not one realize your perspective won't necessarily be wrong but it won't be all that u think it is either.
Elise - an old friend
ps some of your poetry ain't bad keep at it
Hmmm, indeed interesting. Now I am sure that everyone is different and women are very invivdual about everything they do and say and act and feel and I respect that. I was about to go off on a long rant but I think I am just going to end it here. Elise you brought up some good points and I am sorry if I offended you, but thats how I feel and I will continue to express myself accordingly. But yes Elise I do agree I don't know everything about girls, its cuz they won't ever let me find anything else out.
[manipulative]? sorry, spelling and grammar errors here get to me. And you all know who I am...
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